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Discover effective therapies for mental clarity and emotional growth, find out more about supporting studies or statistics on the effectiveness of therapeutic approaches.
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Beyond the Talking Cure: What Helps Change Last?
Can talk therapy create lasting change? Explore the strengths and limits of CBT, ACT and EMDR—and what helps turn self-understanding into lasting action.

Katy Wicks
Aug 118 min read


EQ vs IQ: What Actually Makes a Workplace Function?
Why do so many intelligent workplaces still feel dysfunctional? Exploring EQ vs IQ in modern organisations, stakeholder relationships, workplace culture and emotionally intelligent leadership through real examples from Boeing, Google, the NHS and more.

Katy Wicks
May 266 min read


I'll Enjoy It When It's Done
A reflective and humorous exploration of why so much of adult life feels rewarding only after it’s finished. From cleaning and running to work, productivity culture and the “arrival fallacy”, this Happy Citta blog considers whether we’ve forgotten how to enjoy the middle of things.

Katy Wicks
May 115 min read


What Am I Basing My Decisions On? Is It Intuition or Anxiety?
When your mind is noisy, how do you trust yourself? A grounded exploration of anxiety vs intuition, with practical tools to find clarity and make decisions that truly align with you.

Katy Wicks
May 410 min read


Am I Seeking Community... Or Do I Need To Start A Cult?
A reflective blog exploring Western culture, loneliness, and the quiet longing for community. Why do we work so hard for a life that keeps us separate—and what might a more connected way of living look like?

Katy Wicks
Apr 146 min read


The End of Therapy, The End of The Beginning... Again
A final reflection on six weeks of self-led therapy, exploring meaning, values, and the difficult choices that come with living more honestly.

Katy Wicks
Mar 225 min read


What is Logotherapy and How Can It Help Me?
What is Logotherapy? Learn how Viktor Frankl’s meaning-focused therapy helps people navigate purpose, suffering and life direction. A reflective look at purpose, suffering and direction from the Therapist in Therapy series.

Katy Wicks
Mar 177 min read


Yoga and Physical Practices in Mental Health: The Therapy I Almost Abandoned
How yoga and somatic movement supported burnout recovery. A therapist reflects on posture, screens, grief and returning to the body.

Katy Wicks
Mar 29 min read


The Third Week But The First 'Act' - Introducing Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) explained through a therapist’s real-life journey. Learn how to act with integrity despite fear, guilt and uncertainty. What is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy? Discover how ACT builds psychological flexibility.

Katy Wicks
Feb 175 min read


Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and How I've Been Using It To Heal
A therapist explores Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) to understand stress, irritation and interruptions — and how hidden mental rules shape our reactions.

Katy Wicks
Feb 89 min read


What is Compassion Focussed Therapy (CFT) And How Can I Use It?
What is Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) and how can it help? Learn how CFT reduces self-criticism, stress and emotional overload, and how one therapist is using this for a self-led therapy intervention in their personal life.

Katy Wicks
Feb 35 min read


Applying Therapy Techniques to The Self... As A Therapist!
A therapist documents a six-week, self-led therapeutic reset during burnout, using CFT, NLP, ACT, Adlerian Therapy and Logotherapy to manage stress, reactivity and the onwards journey.

Katy Wicks
Jan 274 min read


Soul-AH Activity
Soul-ah Activity explores the aurora as a metaphor for our inner world — invisible forces, emotional storms, awe, boundaries, and the beauty of unseen processes becoming visible.

Katy Wicks
Jan 203 min read


Am I Just A Narcissist?
Why autism, ADHD, trauma and narcissism can look similar. A thoughtful exploration of labels, behaviour and ethical self-reflection. A compassionate exploration of how to understand behaviour without judgement.

Katy Wicks
Jan 144 min read


Finding Peace As A People Pleaser
A reflective piece on people-pleasing, responsibility and burnout — exploring the tension between caring deeply, meaningful work, and a few suggestions for rest, boundaries and balance.

Katy Wicks
Jan 75 min read


Why Is It Sometimes Easier to Live With Six People Than One?
This reflective blog explores space, control, nervous systems and modern living — drawing on psychology, housing research and lived experience to rethink intimacy, cohabitation and what we really need to feel at home.

Katy Wicks
Dec 23, 20256 min read


How Can EMDR Therapy Help You?
Discover how EMDR therapy helps process trauma, anxiety and emotional triggers by reshaping the brain’s responses. A clear, accessible guide to EMDR’s real benefits.

Katy Wicks
Dec 10, 20255 min read


Solutions-Based Thinking... Or Not?
Solution-based thinking is helpful, but only when we truly understand the problem, and approach it from the right perspective. Explore the science, bias, and balance behind fixing things properly.

Katy Wicks
Dec 1, 20255 min read


Where Did Our Villages Go?
A reflective blog on modern loneliness, the loss of traditional community, and how we can rebuild meaningful connection through chosen tribes and ready-made communities.

Katy Wicks
Nov 25, 20255 min read


Whose Advice is Right?
Most advice contradicts itself. That's why real wisdom comes from knowing your values, understanding your season of life, and choosing what truly fits you. Find out how to do that, here!

Katy Wicks
Nov 18, 20255 min read
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