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Latest from the blog


The Perspective That’s Changing My Relationship with Anxiety
Can anxiety be influenced by the way we think? In Part 2 of this personal experiment, I explore anxiety through scientific and spiritual perspectives, from rumination and cognitive reappraisal to manifestation, uncertainty and some strangely well-timed feathers.

Katy Wicks
Oct 48 min read


Don't Cry Because You Lost it...
Can you be grateful for your life and still want something different? Exploring gratitude, happiness, change and the strange beauty of letting go.

Katy Wicks
Sep 165 min read


Am I Seeking Community... Or Do I Need To Start A Cult?
A reflective blog exploring Western culture, loneliness, and the quiet longing for community. Why do we work so hard for a life that keeps us separate—and what might a more connected way of living look like?

Katy Wicks
Apr 146 min read


What is Logotherapy and How Can It Help Me?
What is Logotherapy? Learn how Viktor Frankl’s meaning-focused therapy helps people navigate purpose, suffering and life direction. A reflective look at purpose, suffering and direction from the Therapist in Therapy series.

Katy Wicks
Mar 177 min read


Yoga and Physical Practices in Mental Health: The Therapy I Almost Abandoned
How yoga and somatic movement supported burnout recovery. A therapist reflects on posture, screens, grief and returning to the body.

Katy Wicks
Mar 29 min read


Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and How I've Been Using It To Heal
A therapist explores Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) to understand stress, irritation and interruptions — and how hidden mental rules shape our reactions.

Katy Wicks
Feb 89 min read


What is Compassion Focussed Therapy (CFT) And How Can I Use It?
What is Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) and how can it help? Learn how CFT reduces self-criticism, stress and emotional overload, and how one therapist is using this for a self-led therapy intervention in their personal life.

Katy Wicks
Feb 35 min read


Soul-AH Activity
Soul-ah Activity explores the aurora as a metaphor for our inner world — invisible forces, emotional storms, awe, boundaries, and the beauty of unseen processes becoming visible.

Katy Wicks
Jan 203 min read


Am I Just A Narcissist?
Why autism, ADHD, trauma and narcissism can look similar. A thoughtful exploration of labels, behaviour and ethical self-reflection. A compassionate exploration of how to understand behaviour without judgement.

Katy Wicks
Jan 144 min read


Finding Peace As A People Pleaser
A reflective piece on people-pleasing, responsibility and burnout — exploring the tension between caring deeply, meaningful work, and a few suggestions for rest, boundaries and balance.

Katy Wicks
Jan 75 min read


Why Is It Sometimes Easier to Live With Six People Than One?
This reflective blog explores space, control, nervous systems and modern living — drawing on psychology, housing research and lived experience to rethink intimacy, cohabitation and what we really need to feel at home.

Katy Wicks
Dec 23, 20256 min read


Where Did Our Villages Go?
A reflective blog on modern loneliness, the loss of traditional community, and how we can rebuild meaningful connection through chosen tribes and ready-made communities.

Katy Wicks
Nov 25, 20255 min read


Whose Advice is Right?
Most advice contradicts itself. That's why real wisdom comes from knowing your values, understanding your season of life, and choosing what truly fits you. Find out how to do that, here!

Katy Wicks
Nov 18, 20255 min read


Okinawa: What Can We Learn From Blue Zones?
What do Okinawa, Sardinia and Ikaria have in common? Explore how Blue Zones inspire longer, healthier lives through purpose, community and a slower pace of living.

Katy Wicks
Nov 5, 20255 min read


The Masks We Wear: Authenticity vs Performance
We all wear masks. At work, with family, even with ourselves. This reflective blog explores authenticity vs performance, psychology of the persona, and how to notice the masks we carry.

Katy Wicks
Oct 21, 20254 min read


When Doing Nothing Is Doing Something
A brief look at the role of stillness and rest in a fast paced world, based on Stefan Sagmeisters TED Talk about his "Creative Sabbaticals".

Katy Wicks
Oct 14, 20253 min read


Free Speech, Fear and Listening: Who Really Gets Heard?
Free speech is protected by law, yet fear and inequality shape who gets heard. Explore how listening can build hope, not hate, in a noisy world.

Katy Wicks
Sep 17, 20257 min read


ADHD, Autism, or Just Me?
Exploring the development of ADHD and autism traits in adulthood: masking, life events, pandemic effects, and why awareness matters more than labels.

Katy Wicks
Aug 20, 20257 min read


Why We Dream – And What to Do With Them
Explore the science and psychology of dreams, from vivid night visions to déjà-rêvé, night terrors, and visitations, researched from neurological, psychological and cultural perspectives.

Katy Wicks
Aug 13, 20259 min read


"Not My Circus!" - and Other Lessons in Compassion
When life feels chaotic and compassion feels inconvenient, how do we choose grace over judgement? In this reflective Happy Citta blog, explore how to stay soft in a hard world.

Katy Wicks
Aug 5, 20254 min read
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